Marriage is a bond
The association of Man & Woman is as old as
inception of life on this earth. This association is well described in all our
epics and holy books. They say that for existence and proper functioning of
this nature, man and woman both has to contribute equally. It’s perfectly true,
because if man sows the seeds of life, its woman who nurtures it, feeds it from
their body, take proper care with lots of love and intense affection and at
last delivers that symbol of life. She is the key part in formation of love.
She contributes more than men.
But, on the second front its man who protects
woman.
He is responsible for providing all types of security, be it physical
security, financial security, social security or emotional security. Modern woman
is advanced enough to take care of her, to earn their livelihood, and to think
and plan their future. But at certain points she also needs help and support of
men. Women are considered as stronger by heart, and men are known as stronger
by mind and body.
In brief, it’s clear and acceptable fact
that men and women both are complimentary to each other. Together they can be
creator of life, they can generate so much of happiness, fun and harmony in
life of each other, and they can make their life better than earlier after a
particular stage. This association of both genders starts after marriage. Marriage is a stage of
life where one gets a partner for life. There are several things for which you
need a partner, not only to fulfill only physical needs. The relationship of husband and
wife is based on mutual trust, sentiments for each other, as well as a lot of
love, affection and respect for each other. All these things are essential
ingredients of a successful marriage. One needs to
be strict to maintain equilibrium between all these ingredients. In absence of
any of them, you cannot expect a long lasting marriage.
Marriage is a lifelong relation, to be driven
by both husband and wife. They both are drivers of their married life. None of
them can take it along with life alone. They need support of their partner at
every walk of life.
Some Tips for Women to Please Their
Husband
- Cook
favorite cuisines of your husband on leisure time of weekends. A candle
light dinner arranged at your own home can be the most romantic way to
spend a weekend.
- Surprise
your husband with special makeup and dressing on special occasions like anniversary.
- Get up
early morning before your hubby, and make him awake by dripping water from
your wet hairs, believe me it can be the most erotic way of interacting at
the start of day. It can result a very good day for your husband and you
both.
Some Tips for men to Please Their Wife
- The best
way to please your wife is presenting gifts, because women are obsessed
for gifts. Gifting jewellery set on memorable occasions like her birthday
or your marriage
anniversary
can make her jump with joy.
- Take you
wife along with you on a long holiday to a deserted island, or lovely hill
station. It can give a feeling of relaxation as well as you’ll spend some
real quality time with your wife.
- Some
smaller things like bidding goodbye with a romantic kiss before leaving to
work can result smiles on your wife’s face giving you utmost pleasure.
There are several other small things
that can make lot of positive changes in your married
life.
You just need to identify the right timings. Hit the ball when it is suitable,
and get the maximum pleasure out of your married life.
Controversy in Marriage
Marriage is a beautiful that is
celebrated on earth. It is that institution that keeps man bonded in a relation
who is sweet, needs full commitment and dedication with honesty. The relation
of marriage is based on honesty, Respect and love for each other. Either of its
missing can create problem. No relation on earth is always flowery. Problems
are always attached.
In relation of marriage also problem is
bound to have, which later leads to sometimes serious problems. The main
controversies which generally couple faces are:
Couples often have clashes on money
matters. One person might always be in the vague of saving money, while
the spouse might be spendthrift. Thus, expenses are always an issue.
Married ladies are more often coming up
with the problem of In-laws. This can be somewhat attributed to generation gap
also. In-laws compare their times with that of their child’s and this causes
frustration.
Communication
Problem in Marriage
Lack of proper communication gives rise
to misunderstandings, thereby causing clashes and tension.
Loss of intimacy is one of those common
marriage problems that eat away foundation of a marriage turning what was once
a loving and fulfilling relationship into nothing more than a shell. When there
is loss of closeness in a relation there is no light. It is only through people
communication
that people can establish healthy relation.
So it is always better to find solutions
of all these major problems which lead to controversies. No man on this earth
is perfect. But couple should remember that it is the adoption of this
imperfectness and making marriage life blessed.
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